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The plight of Gathoka children

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Dikabelo Baganne of Gathoka settlement, a stone’s throw away from Molepolole would love to be a pilot, but the 12 year old girl’s dream seems far-fetched due to circumstances surrounding her family background.

The standard six pupil at Lephaleng Primary School is open about what she fears would make her dream not come true. “I’m suffering. I don’t have school uniform, I don’t have clothes and I depend on donations,” she told The Midweek Sun this week. The young girl has dropped from an A student to C over the years.

She has eight siblings, who have children of their own to take care of.  Her older sister Boitshwarelo Baganne says that she-Dikabelo, has since started performing unsatisfactorily in her studies. She explained that parents at Gathoka neglect their children for alcohol.

“Our parents drink too much. They neglect children and this frustrates them from a tender age,” she says. She narrates that children from Gathoka often start school from the age of 12 due to lack of parental care. Others quit school along the way. According to the older sister, young girls from the settlement resort to giving themselves to men, something she says has led to increasing teenage pregnancies in the area.

The 34 year-old mother of three had her first child at the age of 17. She survives by doing piece jobs in Molepolole. Her other young sister Boikhutso Baganne, 17, became a mother at the age of 16. She was doing Form three when she fell pregnant and had a promising future as a renowned soccer star at school.

Her dream, she says, is to become a nurse and that would only happen if a Good Samaritan could come to her rescue and connect her with social workers. “I love my baby but he is the reason I’m stuck here. None of my family members want to help me with him but I really want to go back to school,” she says.

A community activist from Molepolole Khumo Motsemme says she has visited Gathoka residents several times. She pointed out that children’s lives were unpleasant, citing being sexually molested by Zimbabweans as a leading problem. She states that more than 50 children do not go to school due to lack of parental care and support from their alcoholic parents.

Girls, from as young as 14 have become ‘sexually active’ and this she says, is driven by extreme poverty in their families. A lot of time, she adds, mothers go to shebeens with children which puts their lives at risks. Boys often leave school from as young as Standard two. “These people are a true epitome of poverty and children feel it the most,” she says.

A teacher from Lephaleng Primary School says pupils from Gathoka are generally known to be poor performers due to their circumstances. “They record a rising number of absentees and poor grades. Some come to school dirty and without uniforms,” she says.

Gathoka falls under Lekgwapheg ward in Molepolole. Social worker Goitse Barupi did not want to be drawn into an interview, and referred this reporter to Kweneng senior assistant council secretary Gofaone Kgabanyane, who was reported to be out of the country.

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‘Give us water’ campaign ups the ante

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WHITHER THE WATER: The water tanks in Molepolole have not been of any help to the residents

The ‘Give us water” campaign at Molepolole is gaining momentum. The group made up of the young and old is determined to fight for a basic need of life that has over the years proved scarce in the village – water.

The residents have gone thirsty for many years and to date, the situation remains the same. The taps have completely dried up and they survive by buying water on a daily basis.
Early last year, the people of Molepolole felt enough was enough and even petitioned Water Utilities Corporation (WUC).

According to the campaign’s Publicity Secretary Oreeditse Nyatso, WUC then responded to say that it was aware of the situation in Molepolole and would normalise things in the near future. However, that has not happened and they continue to suffer.

Seeing that things were stagnant, the campaign committee appealed to the community during the festive season to make suggestions on how best to find solutions. “Bakwena have grown impatient and it was evident during the meeting that they go to work dirty, they drink almost any drop, clean or not, to try and quench their thirst,” he said. Nyatso told this publication that the Molepolole people have lost confidence in WUC.

They were even angered by the WUC press release on the 30th of December 2018 which attributed the water challenges to power cuts. They are disappointed that the blame has now being pinned on Botswana Power Corporationn (BPC) when they have been struggling for the longest period.

Given the current situation, Molepolole is said to be planning to ask the government to bring back the Department of Water Affairs. They believe WUC has failed Molepolole dismally since it took over from Department of Water Affairs in 2011.

Another meeting with all stakeholders is slated for 26th January 2019. Meanwhile, WUC has assured residents via a press release a fortnight ago that they are working around the clock to restore the situation.

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‘It breaks my heart to see my child sick’

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A CRY FOR HELP: Young mother Lesedi Pilane is appealing for help as she seeks to get her child healed. The liver transplant will cost P400 000

A Mochudi mother of a baby with liver disease is praying day and night for her child to get a liver transplant. A sick child is every mother’s nightmare. All one can do is hope for the best. This is the situation that 23-year old Lesedi Pilane finds herself in. Pretty with beady bright eyes and soft features, the soft-spoken mother is heartbroken by the pain and anguish that her child Rorisang Nathan Pilane endures.

Rorisang is in the progressive stage of liver disease and needs an urgent liver transplant. When Pilane spoke to The Midweek Sun yesterday, she had just returned from a check-up at Princess Marina hospital. Mother and child are currently at Deborah Retief Memorial hospital in Mochudi where baby Rorisang has been admitted since 1 January 2019. Pilane and baby have been in and out of hospital for the past few months since Rorisang was diagnosed with biliary artesia (liver disease) at three months old.

Biliary artesia is defined as a rare disease of the liver and bile ducts that occurs in infants and is characterised by obliteration or discontinuity of the extrahepatic biliary system, resulting in obstruction to bile flow. This progressive liver problem is a chronic disease that often becomes evident shortly after birth with signs of yellowing of the skin and whites of the eyes (jaundice). Bile eventually builds up in the liver and damages it, leading to scarring as well as loss of liver function and tissue.

The unemployed Pilane seems overwhelmed by the situation and admits that it has been a tall order to come to terms with living with and taking care of an ill child. Pilane is however taking it all in her stride. After her child was born, she did not suspect that anything was wrong. They went for the usual six weeks check-up after birth and the nurses also gave them a clean bill of health.
“I only realised that something was wrong when the baby’s eyes started turning yellow and his urine was also dark yellow. His tummy was also stiff and slightly swollen. I found this strange and that is when I went back to the clinic.”

That is when Pilane was given a referral to Princess Marina Hospital where they confirmed that Rorisang has biliary artestia. Pilane went to register Rorisang at the transplant unit.
At four months old a Kasai operation (surgical treatments performed on children with biliary artesia) was done on Rorisang but it was not successful. They told her that operations of this nature are often done when a child is two months and below. “At Princess Marina hospital, I was told that his liver was already damaged so he needs a liver transplant. I was even told that the situation was so dire that he would live up to a year and a half.”

She did not receive any assistance. She was informed that the doctors were attending a workshop in India. After some time she was contacted and told that she could be his living donor if a donor is not found. “We did tests and everything seemed to be going well. They told me that they had taken the blood samples to a lab in South Africa but never heard from them again.” Pilane says that they were admitted at Princess Marina hospital in March last year.

In April an operation was done on Rorisang to drain bile from the liver. Rorisang was given medication to support his liver but she says it is not working as his situation is still deteriorating.
Pilane was informed that a liver transplant in India costs P400, 000 and P1.3 million in South Africa. Pilane, who is unemployed, survives off the generosity of family members, who she says have been supportive.

She says it is difficult to leave him with anyone else. “He does not cry or complain when he is sick so it is difficult for those who do not know to take care of him. I know that once he sleeps often or looks drawn then it means that he is not feeling well.” Of late, baby Rorisang has not been eating well. “He only drinks milk. He has now lost a lot of weight. Dieticians have recommended him diets and ordered him some foods but he refuses to eat and if you force him to, he actually vomits,” his mother says.

Oddly, a few months ago, baby Rorisang could gain a kilogramme per day. The doctors told his mother that this was because of water accumulation and explained that it was not good as it would compress the organs such as the lungs and make him struggle to breathe. “They said we could lose him before the operation so they suggested that he be medically tapped in order to reduce the water.” Baby Rorisang still faces medical challenges right now.

His eyes, private parts and legs are swollen but his size has reduced since the tapping. Pilane says that she is unsure what the current state is with the liver transplant. “I was told that government only funds one liver transplant patient per year. My particulars are with them so I do not know whether they will assist me.”

On Monday, Pilane was contacted and asked to come to Princess Marina Hospital for a blood test and cross match. She is praying for a breakthrough for her child and in the meantime she takes each day as it comes. “I can’t eat, I can’t sleep. I am stressed. I have put all my faith in God.” At the time of going to print, Pilane was still waiting for a response regarding the possibility of a liver transplant.  She has also received request to assist from a few people and has already sought assistance to get a trust fund account opened for Rorisang.

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