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“We shouldn’t justify rape”- Kgosi Seboko, Sakufiwa

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Kgosi Mosadi Seboko of Balete has come to the defence of abused women by challenging liberated men to start empowering other men on life issues.

Kgosi Seboko says that men who have a good understanding of their role as protectors of women and children should teach others how to go about it. “Men shouldn’t rape us. It doesn’t matter where a woman is, she should never get raped. Go betelela ke bophologolo and men should man up and protect women and girls,” she says.

She laments that women get raped anywhere, whether it is at bars, or in the comfort of their homes. “We have cases where women were raped by their neighbours, girls raped by their stepfathers and women raped wearing long dresses. So it’s not about how you look and where you are,” she says. But the Kgosi and her ilk speak off tangent with Texas Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson, who reckons that women bear some of the responsibility in preventing sexual harassment and abuse. 

Johnson says that women should understand that ‘rights come with responsibilities.’ Of course she angered feminists when she told NBC 5 news station late last year that she was disappointed and angered by the allegations of sexual harassment, abuse and misconduct against Hollywood heavyweight Harvey Weinstein. The Democratic Congresswoman who represents Texas’ 30th district says that a woman’s behaviour, including the way she dresses, can invite sexual harassment and assault.  “I grew up in a time when it was as much the woman’s responsibility as it was a man’s ― how you were dressed, what your behaviour was,” Johnson said.

“I’m from the old school that you can have behaviours that appear to be inviting. It can be interpreted as such. That’s the responsibility, I think, of the female. I think that males have a responsibility to be professional themselves,” she said.  Johnson believes that sexual harassment and assault happen because women allow it.  “I think we also need to start talking about the power that women have to control the situation.

There’s law enforcement, you can refuse to cooperate with that kind of behaviour,” she said. “I think that many times, men get away with this because they are allowed to get away.” But Kagisano Women’s Shelter director Lorato Moalosi-Sakufiwa, like Kgosi Mosadi Seboko, says that the issue is rape and not what women wear or where they go. “Going to drink is not a crime, neither is wearing mini-dress. The perpetrator should stop,” she states, citing the recent Tlokweng cases to show that women get raped even at their homes.

Recently, a woman aged below 25 was raped by four men behind a bar in Molepolole. At the scene, there were witnesses that blamed her for being over-drunk. “Even when we called the police, they found her drunk. She didn’t even know that she had been gang-raped,” a witness said. Botswana Police Service public relations officer, Assistant Commissioner Dipheko Motube says statistics from crime overview for the festive season show that 110 rape cases were recorded from December 18, 2017 to January 3, 2018.

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VACANCY: President of the UDC

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Botswana Movement for Democracy (BMD) President, Advocate Sidney Pilane says Umbrella for Democratic Change (UDC) does not have a President.

He revealed this week that UDC leader, Advocate Duma Boko was given the leadership of the coalition on a temporary arrangement. Advocate Pilane who was addressing the media this week, following the expulsion of his party from the UDC stated that in the buildup to 2014 general elections it was agreed that Advocate Boko should be presidential candidate for UDC, an arrangement that ended at the time when the UDC lost the 2014 general elections.

“It was decided that Botswana National Front (BNF) should be given the presidency so that Advocate Boko could be our presidential candidate. The late Gomolemo Motswaledi of BMD was to be his running mate. We made this arrangement in preparation to taking over state power.

So, all that has passed, we contested and lost so it is all in the past,” said the BMD leader. He stated that constitutionally, the UDC has no president because the president has to be elected during the UDC elective congress. Advocate Pilane pointed out that UDC according to the Constitution should hold its congress every three (3) years.

He stated that even all the members of UDC National Executive Committee have to be elected at the congress and as it stands, “there is no president or Vice Presidents because they were not voted into those positions.”

Advocate Pilane said instead of building the UDC brand their colleagues at Botswana Congress Party (BCP) and Botswana National Front have resorted to petty issues. He told the media that the leadership of the two parties have taught their members to insult BMD leadership and its members on social media and any other forum.

He had no kind words for the BCP, calling the party a divisive party that thrives on insults and divisive tendencies. He said the BCP leadership had encouraged its foot soldiers to use social media to insult him and members of the BMD.

According to Advocate Pilane, these are some of the things that have made the two parties remain in opposition for far too long without even coming close to toppling the ruling party. He described them as dishonest people who will plunge the country into chaos and that is why Batswana do not want to give them power.

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VIDEO: A Gaborone hotel Prophet caught in the act

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In a matter that closely resembles that of a South African Cabinet Minister, Melusi Gigaba’s masturbating video clip, a visiting Zimbabwean Prophet, Ronald El Melchizedek of Altar of Grace this week denied that he has been sending nudes to church sisters and demanding same from them.

In fact, the ‘man of God’ has earned himself the name, ‘Botswana’s Omotoso’ by girls that allege he has sexually exploited them. Pastor Timothy Omotoso is a Nigerian clergyman accused of sexually exploiting over 30 young girls from his church in South Africa.

“He is an Omotoso and even though they hide it at his church, some of us have received messages from him asking for our nudes. Actually, he has asked for my nudes several times,” says one church sister.

The Midweek Sun has gotten hold of a 34 seconds video clip of the youthful prophet playing with his manhood. Looking like he is in a hotel room, the man stands fully naked in a muted video that, depicts him speaking and teasing the recipient. In a standing position, he starts off by caressing his manhood, giving it a close up and ends up lying on the bed, facing up.

At least three young women say they received the video from the prophet and that he usually asks for nudes from them. One of them actually says he has been pestering her, demanding to have sex with her. “He likes to send me messages of how horny he is for me. But again, he likes asking for nudes from women.

Even married women at his church have fallen victims of his sexual harassment. I left the church because he disgusted me by doing such things yet calling himself a man of God,” she says.

The woman however says that Melchizedek, a Zimbabwean who holds services at Gaborone Hotel when he is in the country, is a man of accurate prophecies. “He moves mightily in the prophetic but he likes harassing church sisters. It is known in his church. He is married but controlled by the spirit of lust,” she says.

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Melchidezek told The Midweek Sun that he was aware of the video of him doing the rounds through WhatsApp, but was quick to label the whole thing a scam.“Yes we are aware. Those are scammers from Benin who hacked into my wife’s Facebook account and phone and stole our videos and pictures. So they wanted to blackmail us and we refused, that is why they are doing that.

It is just an effort to harm the work of God but God is in control,” he told The Midweek Sun. He would not be drawn into responding to, or even discussing the allegations levelled against him by church sisters, but instead gave this reporter a mobile number of a person he said was his wife.

The said woman confirmed that the video was posted by scammers. “That was done by scammers. We have reported them to Benin police,” she said. She however would not give the name of the police station nor go into further details.

This incident follows on last week’s revelations reported by this publication, where several girls spoke anonymously about pastors, prophets and ‘men of God’who were using them sexually in church. Many were uncomfortable to reveal their names, forcing this paper to also conceal the identies of the accused churches and pastors involved in the dirty acts in the name of God.

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